Here is what I do know:
He was born in St Mary’s Cray, Kent in 1835.
Thomas' parents were James Bird, (Gunsmith) b. 1797 in St Mary’s Cray & Susan Quick. They were married in Stoke Damerel on the 12th of June, 1830.
I know he had a sister, Sophia Letitia, b. in 1838. She married James Beck in Aberlady in 1864 & died in Leith in 1875.
There may have been 2 brothers, James & Edward christened in 1826 in Dover (if the IGI entries are accurate).
Thomas first appears in Tranent in 1851 as an apprentice tailor.
He married Ann Crookston in 1858 in Prestonpans & lived there until his death in 1902.
Sorry to take so long setting this up, but now to my plea for help. I have tried & tried again to find any of them in the 1841 Census, either in England or in Scotland.
I know sometimes people are just missing from census. However, I can find not one of them, James & Susan, Thomas or Sophia in1841 & only Thomas in 1851. (In fact, there is no sign of James and Susan, whatsoever.) Where were they all? I know I don’t have all the tricks for searching, wildcards, etc? I sure would like to know were they all were & why some of them went to Scotland?
A possible clue came to light today. On the DC for Sophia L. Beck in 1874 her father’s occupation was “armourer”, not the usual gun maker or gunsmith. I looked up what exactly that was: "Maker of armour; official in charge of a regiment's or ship's arms." Could that have something to do with their invisibility? Please, oh please, suggestions on where I might turn on this?!
Thanks, alysone