I just cant find Davids birth record, as I have said, all his childrens records show the fathers name as David williamson or young.... ?... I dont know why.I have contacted Midlothian records etc......nothing!
The birth record may not exist.
In the time frame you are looking for, the records are baptismal records, which may or may not list the actual birthdate, depending on how careful the minister was in recording details. The local minister may not have written down the information when he baptized baby David so a record never existed to begin with. Or, if the minister did record it, the record may not have survived ~ fires, floods, mold, absent-minded ministers packing the register away.... they all happened.
Or his family may have been Catholic, Anglican, or part of one of the break-off Presbyterian/Church of Scotland groups (
while the major secession from the Church of Scotland was in 1843, there had been smaller, earlier divisions which occurred in {IIRC} about 1732/3 and in the early 1760s). Since the OPRs that are on-line at Scotlandspeople for before 1855 are the records of the Church of Scotland and not civil/government records, that's what church the bulk of the people recorded in them belonged to. There are some records in the OPRs for non-Church of Scotland families (I have one ancestor baptized by the Associate Congregation minister recorded in the 1790s, for example, and a Catholic ancestor whose burial in the 1830s is listed).
Some records for non-Church of Scotland congregations pre-1855/civil registration are extant ~ where and how accessible they are depends on many factors. Many Catholic records are on-line at Scotlandspeople, for example, but I'm not sure how well records were kept by Catholic parishes in the 1780s. Many other records are archived in Edinburgh but not on-line yet or well-indexed
Have you identified any siblings of David? Witnesses to his marriage and his children's baptisms can be good places to start looking for those ~ also often worth scanning a page or two each side of the census entry you have ~ no guarantee that other people named Young living two farms away are related, but it can't hurt to glance long enough to see who was around. If you can find a brother who was a witness to David's marriage or to a niece/nephew's baptism, and the brother lived until 1855, his death record may list parents.
If David was illegitimate, and you are really lucky, the church session records may still exist and mention his birth and have details of his parents. Again, what records exist varies greatly by parish, so hard to answer where to go without having narrowed the search area down a bit.
Is there a gravestone for David? If so, are other people named Young buried in the same cemetery?
Overall, based on my own experience and what I've seen other people find, unless you get really lucky or a family was prominent/land-owning (enough to have detailed wills, for example), getting much more than one generation back beyond the 'magical' 1850s (
first census with actual ages and birthplaces in 1851; the start of civil registration in 1855) is (maybe) a 50/50 proposition. Since you have identified David's death in 1849, he may be your one generation before the good records start
Don't mean that last paragraph to discourage you ~ but it's also worthwhile to be realistic about what can be done.... Of course, I'm still puttering away on my various pre-1850s line, ever hopeful that something new will appear, 'cuz that does happen, too. A register is found in an old barn, a new set of records is digitized and put on-line, a distant cousin has the other half of a puzzle and finds me.... even once had someone email me that she'd seen a letter from an ancestor for sale for the stamp on eBay with details about a family scandal from the 1820s in Pennsylvania; the letter had sold by the time she tracked me down, but she had transcribed what she could see of the letter ~ oh, the new information that had ;-)
Hope this helps!
BJ
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